Someone I know closely has been talking about suicide and something bad just happened to them, they sent this message. It made me think the worst had happened when I got out of work. I freaked out and called them and they got mad and said I was turning a positive message and that there is no reason that message implies they would kill themselves. Am I crazy!?
>>31204385Block them and move onI'm not jokingI am that person in your post and I manipulate like crazy
>>31204388I wish I could but they are a pretty decent person, I'm also getting married to them after 7 years of dating :/ how can I prove to them that message is basically a suicide note?
>>31204408>I'm also getting married to them after 7 years of dating Why not kill yourself now and get it over with?
>>31204408It's not a suicide note. You perceive it as a suicide note as a result of certain concerns or contexts you hold for this person. They did not send it as a suicide note. They send it as an uplifting message. You reading that as a suicide note hurt their feelings. You are not at fault for reading it as a suicide note, but they are not at fault for sending it the way it is either. It's a misunderstanding. If you can't grasp that, you're not ready for marriage.
>>31204385It's totally reasonable to be concerned there, but maybe try just asking if they're okay rather than skitzing on them about suicide specifically
>>31204408>I'm also getting married to them after 7 years of datingWhy did they say "were" in the text message then? You're no longer the best part of their life.
No you're not crazy. I imagine we arent getting the full story, because a person getting mad over what you described happening doesnt make a lot of sense.
>>31204385>Am I crazy!?No, I know of similar messages of people who an heroed. Fuck that nigger, block rn
